Your anxiety about Money…keeps you from having more of it…
I know your pain about money…the constant unending struggle to get more of it, save more of it…and spend less of it. You feel oppressed by money, because you need it in this society….but “its so hard to get enough of it”. You grew up with incorrect thoughts and beliefs about money, keeping you in perpetual fear of not being able to get enough money to pay this bill or that one. All these bills that occur every month with remarkable regularity…having you to restrict or budget your spending. If you are already a business owner…your feelings about money will directly affect the financial success potential of your business ! How could it not ?
Was money scarce when you were growing up ? Did your mother (or your father) always remind you of what you couldn’t buy, because “there wasn’t enough money “? Most of us grew up with limitations surrounding money, and if your immediate childhood was financially impoverished…then you have built up more anxieties and fears of not having enough money. This anxiety and worry about money…makes it that much harder to acquire it. On top of this,,, we all have childhood experiences that shape our belief about money…and what we must do to acquire it….including our definition of success, how we quantify it, label it, and judge each other by it. Depending on what beliefs you were “taught” as a child about money….that is a direct reflection on your current state of income. Society..and our parents taught us that “you have to work hard to get money” and “Money doesn’t come easy”…etc etc.
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Do you have confidence in your ability to get money easily or do you have fear of having to get money the hard way ? Do you have confidence that there is more than enough money for everybody including yourself? Do you worry about paying bills and being late on paying bills ? Fearful of the consequences of late payments and how it will affect your credit score ? Working so hard..does it steal all of your time to enjoy life, family and friends ? When was the last time you went on vacation ?
Worried about how you are going to retire…where will the money come from and will it be enough? Many of us block financial success because we are in the wrong career (doing something that doesn’t suit us). Or you can be in the right career, but at the wrong job. So take a moment to analyse your feelings. Do you love what you do for a living ? If you love it then good, stick with it. If you don’t love it, then start doing more of what you want to do. Switch careers or jobs. Spend more time doing your hobbies and things you love to do; they may actually hold the key to you making more money. You may be cut to be an entrepreneur, rather than a corporate type (or vice versa). Doing something that you love to to, is the easiest way to make money, because you have a lot less anxiety about it. You may have anxiety about the people at work (lol), but the not the actual thing itself. If you are not having having a good time, or enjoying what you are doing for a living…then you are creating a ton of resistance to money right there. Fix this part of the equation first. The more fun your having, the easier money will come to you.
Your desire for more money is enough to begin the creation and attraction process. The magic is in your thoughts and feelings (emotions) about money. You have to decrease your anxiety about having it…and increase your confidence in your ability to create and attract more of it. Anything you created (or attracted) in life on purpose….is only because you felt confident about your ability to do so. You got this job or that woman or that man…because you knew you could. You wanted it and you got it…solely based on your desire and confidence. Everything else lined up around your belief! The key to How to get more Money is to feel strong about money, not weak and vulnerable. Feeling more confident about your ability to get more of it. The vibration of having all the money you need (and want) is ease, relaxation, confidence, peaceful, etc. How do you think you would feel….if you had $100,000 in the bank ? Tap into that feeling. Use whatever money amounts are relevant to your situation right now. The feeling has to feel “real” to you…not elusive or just out of your reach.
—> Prepare a little mp3 recording of yourself in a soothing voice, saying the following affirmation: I clear away any anxiety and fears I have about money. I release any negative emotions and beliefs I have regarding money. I clear away any feelings of anxiety and worry that I have about money, that maybe hidden in other parts of my mind and spirit. I know that money is just energy, and I am energy as well. I am feeling more confident about money. I know that I can create money and attract the circumstance in my life to bring me more money. I am thankful and grateful that money loves me and is attracted to me…always seeking me out. I am confident in me and confident in my ability to have anything that I want..and more money is what I want right now. I want more money to purchase the things I need and want, to have a growing surplus in my life and to feel more stable and financially at ease…I like the idea that all my bills are paid for in advance. …etc, etc. Get your mind and feelings into the mood and vibration of wealth and abundance with this little exercise. <—Play this mp3 at night when you are going to sleep. Fall asleep to it. Meditate on it 5-10mins in the morning before you go to work or school. You will start seeing results usually within 7-14days.Subscribe to my blog.